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It Still Takes Two to Tango: A Defense of Shared Responsibility in Divorce

It Still Takes Two to Tango: A Defense of Shared Responsibility in Divorce

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Hugo Schwyzer
Nov 19, 2020
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Nearly 30 years ago, my first marriage fell apart.  In a last-ditch effort to save it, Alyssa and I went to therapy together.  I’d been doing talk therapy since I was 19, but for my first wife, this was a novel and unwelcome experience.  She’d declared over and over that she hated the idea of pouring out her pain to a stranger, but her hope of saving th…

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