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Lirpa Strike's avatar

It's great that you can be a mentor to these folks going through this. It's just another way for the teacher in you to come out!

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Betsy's avatar

"a chance to still do some good, kind, interesting things" - that's what we all want, too. Hugo, I love reading what you write, but I've realized there's an element to it beyond interest and enjoyment. Just as I studied up on vampires when I was a child just in case they turned out to be real - there's a part of me that's terrified at everything that happened to you, and feels a most anxious need to take notes just in case my life is devastated too. Because this will happen at some point (unlike those vampires). It won't be the same things and the harm I cause and the suffering I will have to endure won't be the same either - but the horror of contemplating how much pain and chaos I could cause? It feels so real. And the wistful hope that I could survive and ever, sort of, fix things? I really need to see that this can happen. Not sure why I have such a powerful reaction to your life experiences (I think it's because your transparency and earnest kindness make you very accessible) but it has been so immensely helpful to me to have had the chance to read your columns. It's good to know - I don't think I've ever seen elsewhere precisely this message of hope and encouragement - that really truly one can fix things - not to the same place but yes, still a chance to do good, kind and interesting things. Thank you.

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